If you want to sleep with other people, tell your significant other first, then go out and have yourself some sex.

That said, yesterday morning, I stumbled across a new writer here on Medium. I was struck by the comments, of several men who were taking refuge behind their marriages, while very clearly testing the possibilities of a "connection" with this writer. In turn, the writer cleverly - I dare say, skillfully - led them on.

I reached the conclusion, that imagination is a lucrative market here on the internet. And so I ask the famous Jimmy Carter question, is imagination cheating?