I am addressing my comment to men and men only. My kid's father, got up for every night feeding, brought baby to me, I fed them and then he rocked them back to sleep. When our babies wouldn't sleep he walked them and cooed to them - for hours. After we divorced he remained equally involved in raising our kids. Today, our 30 and 32 year old children adore their father and go out of their way to spend time with him.

The mother of a man's children should never, ever feel the way this woman does. Likewise, a man's children should never go without their father's presence.

Women, the most loving thing you can do for your children, is make a good father your first priority when dating. Not romance. Not sex. Not money. Not status. If you want children, a good father has to be your first priority. Otherwise, do not have children - period.